Being Single

With the exception of sharing our mothers wombs with our siblings, as part of twins, triplets or more, our ‘Genesis points’ usually begins in singularity. We obviously live most of our child-hood as a single person and (as mentioned in my ‘Single and Secure’ post) we learn about relationships from those around us. Worldly contradictions … Read more Being Single

Don’t Settle

We go through life with differing attitudes, our expectations can be positive, negative or a combination of both, depending on our past experiences, emotional/spiritual state and how we choose to deal with others. The saying “misery loves company”, is true, therefore it’s possible for miserable people to attract others and have a relationship. However, in … Read more Don’t Settle

October 2019, BHM, Greta, XR, POTUS and countdown to Brexit?

October was an interesting month. Mainstream media was lapping up the polarising comments and (obviously parental assisted) mission of Greta Thunberg. There was the both annoying and disruptive, ‘coming out’ of those (with more money and time on their hands, than sense) XR Cult members, a.k.a. Extinction Rebellion. The continual 2-Party US political war, continues, … Read more October 2019, BHM, Greta, XR, POTUS and countdown to Brexit?

Natural beauty and other aesthetics

Being unique individuals automatically equates to us being diverse in our tastes and opinions. The sometimes emotive but always subjective, topic of “beauty” ranks high on the list of personal taste and opinion. Our character, nature, how we view life and treat others are the real measure of the beauty we contain as human beings. … Read more Natural beauty and other aesthetics

Positive emotional expression.

I was scrolling down my Twitter home timeline recently and I saw a conversation between two women concerning broken men and relationships. It reminded me of the real world face-to-face conversations I’ve had with females, who’ve bemoaned the emotional and broken state of many single men. We all know that ‘brokenness’ is not a preserve … Read more Positive emotional expression.

The Rich List

Still on my break from the books, I thought I would share another encouragement piece. Riches…The word provokes very strong emotions in people, for a number of obvious reasons. Are you of the camp which believes you either are or you’re not rich? Or maybe you think more expansively, believing that riches are subjective and … Read more The Rich List

I couldn’t

Taking a short break from the books, if you enjoyed ‘I decided’ I hope you enjoy this… I couldn’t, being born and raised in England, hate White people. I couldn’t, having a Black mother and wife, hate Black women. I couldn’t, loving my mother, wife and 3 daughters, be a misogynist. I couldn’t, share and … Read more I couldn’t

Love and colour

Occasionally you read an article or quote, or hear someone on TV say that they don’t see colour. I think it’s one of the most ridiculous things that anyone can say, in an attempt to seem inclusive and ‘non offensive’. It’s a fact of life, human beings, whether male or female, come in various shapes … Read more Love and colour

All Rise

CBS has a new show called ‘All Rise’, the description on their website reads as follows… “All Rise is a courthouse drama that follows the chaotic, hopeful, and sometimes absurd lives of its judges, prosecutors, and public defenders, as they work with bailiffs, clerks, and cops to get justice for the people of Los Angeles … Read more All Rise

Britain, Brexit and Politics in general

Unless you’ve been on walk-about in the outback or went off-grid in some remote Southern hemisphere rain forest for the last couple of years, you would be well aware of the Brexit “situation” Britain finds itself in. As human beings, our relationship with politics is a funny one. * Some see it as the so-called … Read more Britain, Brexit and Politics in general

Team #McCoco and @g.e.m.s.life

Tennis and Football(Soccer), have always been sports I’ve enjoyed, both playing and watching. My footballing days are well and truly over but I still love to get out and play tennis when I can. I’ve been very impressed by the young American tennis duo at the 2019 US Open, Catherine McNally and Coco Gauff. They … Read more Team #McCoco and @g.e.m.s.life

I decided, a long time ago

I decided to first, remember the poor choices and mistakes I’ve made myself, in order to look at others and love them as God loves them. I decided to make a positive decision to forgive those who misjudge me and/or have wronged me and move on. Un-forgiveness stinks and is like a spiritual and emotional … Read more I decided, a long time ago